Hello and happy Friday!
You know that experience when you hear something SO simple and compelling that it stays with you for a really long time?! It sort of sticks itself somewhere near the surface of your psyche and subtly seeps in to your life on the regular, as often as you let it? Well, I have two such gems to share this week, which combine into a reframe that might just change your cooking experience for the better...
The first magical learning was delivered to me in a Tinder message I got last year. (For those of you who donβt know, Tinder is a dating app. And if you arenβt familiar with the world of online dating, messages from potential suitors can often be repetitive, boring greetings, so the fact that Iβm still thinking about this opening line tells you it really made a mark!)
This person asked if I had ever listened to a meditation lesson by Sam Harris called β
The Last Time.β I hadn't, but I was intrigued, so I did, and it stuck. Itβs 4 mins 40 seconds and I HIGHLY suggest you
listen to it here because itβs kind of life changing. (I never heard from that guy again but I'm so glad he sent me that message!)
Essentially, it poses a simple observation: how often do we actually do something for the last time EVER, without even realizing it? And if we KNEW we were doing something for the last time, how much more would we savor it, even if it were something we donβt always enjoy doing? Harris suggests that becoming conscious of this can change - and improve! - our experience of doing mundane things that we may take for granted.
One everyday thing I recently realized I take for granted is my sense of smell! Ever since I listened to this
podcast/
article about it, I seriously canβt stop thinking about the importance of this sense to my everyday experience and pleasure.
Itβs 55 mins long and I HIGHLY recommend it! (Can you imagine - not being able to distinguish dirty laundry from clean?! That would be SO annoying! And if you had Covid and havenβt recovered your smell, I am SO SO sorry - it seems absolutely awful and much more depressing than its loss is given credit for, as is illustrated in the article/podcast.)
My main takeaway from the
podcast was how much we undervalue our sense of smell and underestimate just how much practical information and meaning it contributes to our everyday lives. As a cook and food-obsessed-person, I think Iβm slightly more aware of how important this sense is to me, but still, this podcast really brought it home.
Since listening, Iβve noticed just how often my nose saves me from burning things. Iβm appreciating how easily and unthinkingly I distinguish subtleties between "fresh," "a tad stale," βon its way out,β or "gone bad."
As you probably know, there are only 5 different β
tastesβ (sweet, salty, sour, bitter, umami), but the human nose can detect about
1 TRILLION smells. Smell is completely crucial to our experience of taste and flavor.
DID YOU KNOW that when you eat, you can actually smell the food that is already in your mouth? This is one of my favorite smell/taste fun facts that I learned in Michael Pollanβs book
Cooked, in which he explains this βretronasal olfactionββ¦